Paca & SteelRaven
Paca Paca
You ever notice how setting boundaries feels like building a little dam in a river—just enough to keep the water from flooding your space, but not so much that it blocks the flow altogether? How do you decide where to place that dam?
SteelRaven SteelRaven
I look at the current flow first, then I map out the pressure points. If the river’s swell is small, a modest dam is enough – a thin wall that stops a splash but still lets the stream move. When the water’s a storm, I’ll build a thicker wall, but I always leave a spillway. The trick is not to let the barrier become a barrier to everything else. I set the line where my own energy is threatened, not where others would rather it be. That way I keep my own course, and I can still see the rest of the river flowing freely.