It’s a bit like running a band where everyone’s got their own instrument and tempo. First, lay down a simple, shared goal—something everyone can see the whole crew on it. Then give each person a spot in that groove, but let them bring their own style to it. If someone wants to steer the ship a bit differently, ask them what they need to feel safe doing that, then see if it still lands on the same destination. And don’t forget to take a breath yourself—you’re the one who has to keep the lights on, not the only one who gets to pick the playlist.