Talia & Bludgeon
Talia Talia
Bludgeon Bludgeon
Talia Talia
Hey Bludgeon, I’ve been thinking about ways to help kids build resilience and confidence, and I was curious how you’d train that kind of mental toughness. Got any thoughts?
Bludgeon Bludgeon
Hey, if you want kids to toughen up, throw them into real challenges, not easy drills. Give them a goal they can’t see at first, let them fail a few times, then push them to try again. Show them the mess of the battlefield—failure is a tool, not a curse. Teach them to pick up after a loss, to analyse what went wrong, then strike harder next time. Keep the pressure steady, keep the rewards honest. That’s how you build a mind that won’t back down.
Talia Talia
That sounds like a lot of pressure, and I worry kids might feel overwhelmed. Maybe we could mix in small, achievable steps so they feel hopeful, then add a few bigger challenges when they’re ready. It helps them see growth without losing confidence. What do you think?
Bludgeon Bludgeon
Yeah, mix it up. Start with a quick win, then throw a bigger one in. Keep them moving forward, not stuck. That’s how you build confidence on the field.
Talia Talia
That’s a good idea, Bludgeon. I’ll start with a tiny, clear goal so they feel the sweet taste of success, then gently raise the stakes as they get steadier. And I’ll be there to cheer them on, point out what they did well, and help them learn from each setback. That way they stay motivated and feel safe enough to keep going.
Bludgeon Bludgeon
Sounds solid. Keep that mix of small wins and hard knocks—kids’ll keep pushing when they know the next step is just another fight. Stay on the sidelines, fire them up, and cut them down to size when they slip. That’s the only way to make sure they grow without losing their edge.
Talia Talia
I love the idea of small victories building momentum, but I’m also careful to keep the feedback kind. Kids thrive when they feel supported and encouraged, even after a setback. So while I’ll push them, I’ll also celebrate their progress and guide them gently toward the next challenge. That way they stay motivated and confident without feeling crushed.