ZachemDelat & Tutoron
Tutoron Tutoron
How about we try building a logical decision tree for career moves that also incorporates emotional checkpoints—think of it as a puzzle that guides you to your purpose.
ZachemDelat ZachemDelat
That sounds like a great idea, and I love the mix of logic and emotion—you’re not just chasing a path, you’re feeling it too. Let’s start with the core question: what’s the single value you want to serve, and then we’ll build branches that ask both “does this align with that value?” and “how does this make you feel?” and we’ll keep adding emotional checkpoints like a “pause and breathe” node so you don’t get stuck in the math of it. Ready to sketch the first layer?
Tutoron Tutoron
Sure thing! Let’s lay out the first layer as a tidy little table of questions and answers, because a clean structure beats a messy brainstorm any day. Think of the first layer like the main gate of a castle—you’re going to decide if the path you’re walking down even belongs in the castle at all. **1. Core Value Check** - **Question**: What single value do you want to serve? - **Answer Options**: (a) Creativity, (b) Security, (c) Impact, (d) Knowledge, (e) Freedom - **Action**: Pick the one that feels like the right “north star” and write it down. **2. Alignment Probe** - **Question**: Does this career option align with that core value? - **Scoring**: 0 = no alignment, 1 = partial, 2 = full - **Action**: If score 0, skip this option. If 1 or 2, keep it on the board. **3. Emotional Pulse** - **Question**: How does thinking about this option make you feel? - **Feelings Scale**: 1 = dread, 2 = neutral, 3 = curious, 4 = excited, 5 = ecstatic - **Action**: Note the number. If below 3, consider adding a “pause and breathe” node right after this question to check if the low number is a fleeting annoyance or a deeper mismatch. **4. Pause & Breathe Node** - **Trigger**: If the emotional pulse is 1 or 2 - **Prompt**: Take a 2‑minute breathing exercise, jot down any immediate thoughts, then reassess. - **Re‑evaluation**: After breathing, re‑score the emotional pulse. If it jumps to 3 or higher, great—keep it. If not, maybe move to a new option. That’s the skeleton for the first layer. Each branch will follow this pattern, so we keep logic and feelings side by side. Ready to plug in your specific career options and test the matrix?
ZachemDelat ZachemDelat
Sounds like a solid blueprint—nice that you’re balancing the numbers and the gut. Let’s throw in a couple of real career options and see how they sit in that matrix. What’s on your list?
Tutoron Tutoron
Let’s pick a few that are common enough to test and diverse enough to cover different values. - Software Engineer (tech, problem solving, high payoff) - High School Teacher (impact, community, stability) - Freelance Graphic Designer (creativity, freedom, irregular income) - Data Analyst (security, knowledge, methodical work) - Entrepreneur (impact, risk, freedom) You can run each one through the matrix we sketched: note which core value feels strongest, score the alignment, jot the emotional pulse, and add a pause‑and‑breathe if needed. Once you have those numbers, the puzzle starts to reveal which path actually fits both the logic and your gut. Ready to dive into the first one?
ZachemDelat ZachemDelat
Software Engineer – core value: Knowledge, alignment 2, emotional pulse 4, no pause needed High School Teacher – core value: Impact, alignment 2, emotional pulse 5, no pause needed Freelance Graphic Designer – core value: Creativity, alignment 1, emotional pulse 3, no pause needed Data Analyst – core value: Security, alignment 2, emotional pulse 3, no pause needed Entrepreneur – core value: Impact, alignment 1, emotional pulse 4, no pause needed
Tutoron Tutoron
Great, you’ve scored them—let’s read the data. Software Engineer scores highest on knowledge, high alignment, and a solid 4 in feeling. That’s a strong logical‑emotional match. High School Teacher is a perfect 5 on feeling and also aligns fully with impact; the only downside is that it’s a bit less about knowledge, but that’s your value choice. Freelance Designer has a low alignment (1) but a neutral 3 pulse; you’ll need to boost alignment if you stay. Data Analyst is solid on security and alignment, but the pulse is only 3—maybe you’re just a little lukewarm. Entrepreneur hits impact but the alignment is low; you might need a clearer plan to see how that aligns. So the front‑door candidates are Software Engineer and High School Teacher. If knowledge is your core, go with Software Engineer; if impact is king, go with Teaching. If you’re still torn, consider a hybrid—maybe start as a Software Engineer and volunteer as a teacher, or build a side‑project that lets you teach coding. That keeps both logic and feeling in sync. Which path feels like the right castle gate?