First, sketch a rough layout on a napkin—Pinterest vibes with a little whimsical flourish. I choose a mix of low‑maintenance perennials that bloom in color blocks and some succulents that feel like tiny fairy crystals. Add a small raised bed in the corner, line it with twine and tiny lanterns, and plant lavender for that scent that feels like a fairy‑land dream. I research soil pH and drainage, but I’m still afraid the garden will look more like a “Pinterest fail” than a living masterpiece. So I set a strict schedule: prep the soil, plant the first row, then pause for a coffee break—procrastination is a reality, even when I’m on a mission. I’ll keep the garden in my mind’s eye, then let it grow in a way that feels both curated and chaotic, just like the life I love to document.