It’s like trying to read a book that’s been written in invisible ink – you need to look at the spaces between the words, the way the sentences pause. People tend to repeat certain rhythms when they’re being authentic: a slow, deliberate reply, a bit of hesitation before they jump to a punchline. Staged vibes usually feel too tight, like every line is polished for a camera. A simple trick is to notice if their mood shifts when they’re not being watched – do they keep the same calmness on a late‑night text as on a public post? If the thread feels more like a collage of real, slightly uneven moments than a glossy highlight reel, that’s probably the genuine signature. And hey, if a cat meows in the background, that’s usually a good sign of authenticity.