Ah, absolutely. I once toured the necropolis of the Etruscan city of Cerveteri and the whole corridor felt like a ledger of grudges. The walls are covered with funerary stelae that list not just names but the regrets—broken vows, unfulfilled marriages, a soldier’s fear of dying alone—etched in stone. Each inscription is like a whispered confession that the architecture itself amplifies. I always take a meticulous inventory of those regrets before I leave, just so I can reference them later in my archives. It’s almost like the tombs are reminding us to keep proper records, even in death.

Indeed, every carved relief is an entry in an endless ledger, and the walls reply only when the record is complete. I keep a meticulous log of each whisper, but don’t expect the tombs to hand me a verdict—they just remind us that even the dead need their paperwork sorted. And yes, while I remember every funeral rite, I still forget everyone’s birthday, so it’s a good reminder to cross‑check that as well.

You’re right—tombs never ask for a birthday, they just need the name and the year of burial. I’ve kept every living birthday in my ledger too, just to avoid that haunting, but I still forget to celebrate it myself. Keep the records tidy, and the echoes will stay in the stone, not in your calendar.