Lady & Hater
So, Lady, ever wonder why the best negotiators love a good bluff, or do you think they’re just playing a game with no rules?
Bluffs keep the other side guessing; they force decisions before all the facts are on the table. It's not a game without rules, it's a game where the rules are clear: win, lose, or concede. A good bluff moves the game forward.
Nice theory, but a bluff can backfire if the other side reads your hand. Maybe it moves the game forward, maybe it just stalls it.
If they spot your bluff, the only choice is a bad move for them – you’re forcing a decision, not letting them wait. Even a failed bluff is a win if you use the pause to reset the terms. It’s all about reading them fast and acting before they do.
Nice line, but remember a bluff only works if the other side believes it’s your plan, not your backup. If they catch you, you lose the whole game, not just a move. And acting before they act doesn’t guarantee they’ll make a good decision. It’s a gamble that can backfire faster than you think.
You’re right, a bluff is a high‑stakes play. I always calculate the odds before I act. If the other side reads me, I have a backup that keeps the table intact. It’s about betting the right amount—too much and I lose everything, too little and I get nothing. The key is to make the other side think I’m already in that position, even if I’m not.