Elin & Proper
Elin Elin
I was just thinking about how stories shape our ideas of right and wrong—do you think the narratives we live in at work affect the ethics we choose?
Proper Proper
Absolutely, the stories we tell ourselves at work—whether it's the heroic CEO, the loyal employee, or the villainous competitor—create a moral backdrop. They set expectations, highlight what behaviors get rewarded, and silently punish those that don't fit. If the narrative glorifies cutting corners for quick wins, employees will feel justified in bending rules. Conversely, a narrative that champions transparency and accountability will push people toward cleaner ethics. The trick is to make those stories explicit, test them against real policies, and keep an eye on the gap between the script and the day‑to‑day actions. If you ignore that gap, the narrative will dictate the ethics, not your conscience.
Elin Elin
It’s interesting how those “hero” and “villain” roles can feel so automatic. I think we all drift into them without even realizing, and sometimes the gap between the story we believe and the things we actually do is bigger than we think. Maybe the trick is to pause, ask if the story still matches the actions, and if not, to adjust the narrative in a way that feels true to us rather than just the expected script. Does that resonate with what you’ve been noticing?
Proper Proper
Yeah, that hits the spot. The real test is to jot down the narrative you’re living by and compare it to your daily moves—if it’s a mismatch, tweak the story before it becomes a habit. It’s the only way to keep the ethics line from turning into a corporate plot twist.
Elin Elin
That makes a lot of sense—sometimes I just jot things down and notice how much I’ve been letting the story dictate my choices. Maybe I’ll start keeping a little diary of the narratives I hear around me and check it against what I actually do each day. It could help me catch the subtle shifts before they become habits. Do you keep a record of your own narratives?
Proper Proper
I keep a quick log in a notebook—just a couple of lines on what the company narrative feels like that day and a snapshot of my key actions. If the story starts to misalign, I flag it and re‑align my next move. It’s tedious, but it keeps the gap from widening into a full‑blown policy violation.