I was just reading about how some ancient rulers managed to keep a balance between their kingdoms and their households—does that remind you of any modern‑day challenges with juggling work and parenting?

It does sound like you’re creating a framework, which is wise—just remember to keep the framework itself flexible. When you mark “playtime” as non‑negotiable, you’re effectively placing a fixed point in your schedule, much like a stone in a river that keeps the flow steady. That gives the rest of your tasks a clear boundary, so the “king” part doesn’t override the kid. The trick is to treat those boundaries as sacrosanct, and revisit them only when circumstances truly change, not just because something else seems urgent. That way the kingdom stays whole, and the children feel the same weight of responsibility.