OtzyvLady & Aurelline
Aurelline Aurelline
Hey, have you ever put together a ritual kit for a new moon? I love picking the perfect crystals and incense, but I'm always tempted to add something flashy—like a tiny crystal chandelier—just to make it look wow. How do you balance looking sharp with making it actually work for the ceremony?
OtzyvLady OtzyvLady
I’ve put a lot of kits together, and the trick is to keep the heart of the ritual simple while the décor whispers style. Start with a small altar grid—crystal, candle, sage—and decide if a chandelier will actually serve a purpose or just add visual noise. A tiny crystal chandelier can be great if it’s a clear crystal that amplifies intention, but if it’s just for sparkle, it’ll draw attention away from the intent. I like to use a single statement piece, like a clear quartz cluster or a moonstone, that sits in the center. Keep the rest in monochrome or soft hues so the energy stays cohesive. Also, remember incense should be a subtle scent that supports the mood, not a competing perfume. Choose one scent or a light blend that echoes your intention. That’s how you balance looking sharp with a truly functional ceremony. If you want a little wow factor, add a subtle shimmer in the candle wax—less is more.