Emperor & Arvessa
Emperor
Arvessa, how do you balance making others feel included while secretly steering them toward your agenda?
Arvessa
I listen first, let them feel heard, then plant the idea that my plan solves their problem; they think it’s their choice, but it aligns with mine.
Emperor
That sounds like the classic art of subterfuge; just remember that people rarely realize they've been guided until the end, and then the question becomes, did you anticipate the backlash or simply hoped the end would justify the method?
Arvessa
I weigh the risks before I act; if the end really serves everyone, the fallout is usually minor, and I have a plan to smooth it over. If it could hurt more than help, I pull back. That way the result justifies the way I got there.